The Algorithm Doesn’t Love Your Children

Technology and Our Kids

I recently stumbled upon a video that shocked me. A little boy was just staring at his phone, aimlessly scrolling. His eyes were glazed over; it felt like he was somewhere else entirely. In that brief moment, I couldn’t help but think about what we’re handing to our children: incredible access to information but no roadmap to guide them through it.

The Danger of Identity Starvation

Today, kids are growing up with screens in front of them more than ever. They’re receiving a flood of information, but what's happening to their identities? When children lack a strong sense of self, they fall prey to what the digital landscape feeds them. Think about it: if a child cannot define who they are, they become raw material for an algorithm that desperately wants to shape their reality. And guess what? That algorithm often sends the message, “You aren’t enough.”

The Importance of Old Tech: Rituals, Stories, and Values

This is where 12x legacy steps in, advocating for a radical shift back to the “old tech.” We need to teach our kids about rituals that build community and shared experiences, stories that resonate with their lives and inspire them, and values that serve as their compass. These aren’t just nice-to-haves; they are vital for the long-term mental health and self-worth of our children. By infusing their lives with rich narratives and traditions, we equip them with an inner strength that no algorithm can touch.

In conclusion, while technology and the digital world offer amazing opportunities, they can also be a double-edged sword. Our responsibility as parents and caregivers is to ensure that we are not just passively handing our youth over to these powerful tools without preparing them. We owe it to ourselves and future generations to provide a nurturing environment that fosters identity and personal growth. Let's revive the importance of storytelling and values in our homes because in the end, the algorithm doesn’t love your children, but we do.